Texting/Calling The Morning After? The Proper Protocol

Okay, we've all done this before in our lives. If not, shame on you. You know, the "infamous" morning after text/call. Usually after some type of sexual relations have went down the night before, but what does this mean? Some of us may get confused and by us I mean, GUYS, because we are the ones who are usually left with the decision to text or call the next day.

From the get go, let me say that the next time you contact your partner/jumpoff/person you just had sex with, it SHOULD NOT be a text. I know we live in the textual world at the moment and some of us LIVE off texting but please don't send a text as your NEXT REACH OUT. It's LOW. Very low I must say. A phone call goes a long way in this day and age, especially since the guy she just left was probably an habitual texter also.
Is it needed? Of course it is and don't give the excuse that you just didn't know when to send it, or it slipped your mind because you were busy doing other things. Nah, not buying it. You weren't busy when she texted you back last night and told you to come over, so don't be "busy" the day after.

But what does it mean and when is the perfect time to hit her up the next day? I mean, I don't want to feel like a pyshco or tooo pressed. Don't worry I got ya!



The very first PHONE CALL you should make should be when you make it home. Call them to let you know that you made it, because I'm pretty sure when you left your spot, you told her,

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Top 5 Tuesdays: Candy [throwback]

5. Tootsie Fruit Rolls

4. Strawberry Filled Bon Bons

3. Jolly Ranchers

2. Air Heads

1. Now & Later

Top Five African American Romance Movies

5. The Best Man

4. Love & Basketball

3. Brown Sugar

2. Boomerang

1. Love Jones

Signs that She's Not Interested In You

Yes fellas, it is fall and cuddle season is fastly approaching. You did a lot of running around this spring and had yourself a very good summer. Pool party here, rooftop event there, lounging through the weekday, etc.. Now you're thinking of bunnin someone up for the winter. Nothing better right? I agree. There are just a few things you need to know, and a few signs you need to look out for before you go chasing a female over these next few months.

Believe it or not, some women, even some of the ones you were checking out over the summer, has found their cuddle buddy for the winter. Tough luck. That's on you playa. So you out there now, "finagling with the hoes" as my homeboy use to call it. Let me give you a few signs that will show you that shorty's not interested in you.


1. If during a conversation, she tells you "This is not the right time."
Ladies know WHAT THEY WANT and WHEN THEY WANT IT. They are not like guys, do we EVER say "this is not the right time?" No. If a female tells you this, keep it moving. Even if she's being truthful, who are you to wait, I told you above, the winter is APPROACHING!

2. When asking for her number, she says, "I'll call you."
Now this could also be true. It has happened a number of times. Although its a 86% chance that she will not give you a call, EVER. The next time a female tells you that, you reply with, "Call me now, so I can save your number." Rude? Maybe, but so what, she wasn't going to call you anyway. Keep it moving.

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MY Top 10 Video Games of All Time

With the release of NBA 2K11 this week, I figured I would post a list of my top 10 video games of all time, due to the buzz that this will be one of the best created sports basketball games ever. Scan over my list and post a few of your own.


10. Blades of Steel - Whoever thought kids in my neighborhood would be lined up to play a hockey game? When they're fighting involved, it makes it much better. This is prolly one of the only hockey games I've ever played more than twice.

9.Street Fighter 2 - This game set the score between who had skills or not. I was undefeated with Ryu.

8.NBA Live 2000 - First one for Playstation 2 I think. Graphics were amazing.

7.Halo 3 - Remember staying up 47 1/2 hours straight the night this dropped.


6.WCW vs NWO: World Tour -Wow, what do you know about this? Getting four people together and going at it in the ring with Sting, The Hulk, The Giant, Rey Mysterio and more.

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Every woman needs a pair...

I really dont know the name of these, so far all I've seen are 'Thong Bootie Sandals' is that correct? Well that's what I'm calling them. They are a must have for women with sexy feet. If you do not have sexy feet, don't buy them. That will only disappoint me and whoever else enjoys a women with a nice pedi. Thanks.
Thoughts?

Too much ASS cannot be GOOD

Maybe its just me. It has to be. I say this because I have never been an ASS GUY. Sure when females with voluptuous hips pass me, I quickly give the head turn and check them out, but I don't fantasize over bottoms. If you would like to know, I'm more of a legs and breast type guy, even when I'm ordering chicken but that's another story.

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