Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Can You Fall In Love Before Having Sex

I really don't even know why I'm asking this. I know EVERYONE will say YES. I guess the thing that I'm trying to find out is, what USUALLY comes first with you all?. We all know it's possible to fall in love before sex but in today's day and age, it seems that sex often occurs within the first 2-3 months. With that being said, are you really falling in LOVE in that short time period?

It's alot I have to say on this topic but I really just don't feel like writing it all out for one, and also you may not feel like reading it all. So for now, this is it. I will however return with a video to explain everything. So I leave you with the question. Normally, do YOU fall in love before you give up the GOODS?


  1. I have. You can fall in love and not in lust. There can be a separation of emotions from the physical, without misconstruing infatuation and sexual compatibility with love. Not saying that's what's being implied, but just thought I'd put it out there.

    But I've also been in love where I was intimate first before dropping THAT L-word.

    Honestly, it's going to differ with folks. Approach isn't one-dimensional, but the real question is are you really in love, regardless of whether you're intimate or not, or are you in love based upon your perception of what love entails? Love, to me, honestly can't really be defined or confined to descriptors. It just is.

    If you gotta break down what your love is, maybe you're in love with the idea of what you think it is, not what IT is.

    Just my opinion. ;)

  2. Normally/Usually have sex before falling in love.

    I really liked KP's input on the subject. Well put.