Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Who Needs More Friends?

The Friend Zone. Smh. Where do I begin? Let me just start by saying it's nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex. We all have them. They play an important role in our daily lives. THIS, on the other hand is NOT the same. As defined by the Urban Dictionary, the Friend Zone is "....the worst position someone can be in, if they have feelings for someone. When a person develops romantic feelings for someone, but the other person only sees the relationship as just being friends.." and THAT'S the PG version.

The friend zone is basically a position that a female places you in because she can't see herself being in a relationship with you, for one. Two, she isn't the type to hurt feelings and just tell you to FUCK OFF. And THREE, because she most definitely has NO PLANS EVER of giving up the guts having sex with you.

All this is cool and all IF you find a guy out there who has no problem being placed in the friend zone. I, for one, am just not that guy. Unless we BOTH get an understanding and come to an agreement, none of this friend zone schmenzone crap is happening with me.



  1. I don't think anyone likes being placed in the "friend" zone. If you're looking for a relationship with that person (and they don't want the same) then it's hard to hang out with them without the relationship conversation coming up or at least always wanting to talk about it. It's just awkward.

    If she's not into you, cut it off when you can't accept the fact that you'll always be "just friends".

  2. Agreed. nothing like getting straight to the point and knowing what the deal is.

  3. JMach hit it on the nail..

    But then you have those that can't take no for an answer... *facepalms*